ever in our life we \u200b\u200bhave come across people, whether at work or elsewhere, that since we appear, make a shiver run through our body.
I happened to speak with people that you have a sense of anguish, vacuum ........ and do not know why ????, surely try to "toxic people" or also known as "emotional vampires" (now you are probably already recognize someone like that, we all run into one or we could be at some point, some of them.
in principle are people who go unnoticed, perhaps introverted ............ and hides behind the negativity, bad humor, sadness. People who are unhappy, frustrated, envious, they need someone to vent, using victimhood, pity and cruelty of others.
Some even use the criticism, the disqualification and verbal or physical violence, they do not accept opinions different from yours.
types of toxic people
According to Dr. Lillian Glass, author of Toxic People (Toxic People), there are different types of emotional vampires:
- 1. The negative : as the word says, they are negative people. Tell them what you say, it is difficult to raise them the spirit ............. what exhausted.
- 2. Those who complain, complain themselves, in different areas of your life, but neither do anything to stop it or change it.
- 3. The picky: housewives yard ........ They objected to everything you do, you will never quite right, even if it is constructive criticism (as them). But tranquil @, is that it found a defect in it.
- 4. The bellicose : aggressive people with whom you watch what you say and who are easily irritated.
- 5. The weak and helpless : need to be defended by others, protected, because they are "weak." Or use the passive aggressive when not being spiteful, they punish you in some way a little more subtle for something they "have done."
- 6. The sarcastic : are cruel, mocking, always hit where it hurts, disguised as black humor or funny that hurts.
- 7. The catastrophic: for them life is an imminent danger .......... something will happen at one time or another.
how to treat
If you can not hide, that would be the easiest, it is best to recognize them and then:
- Take away their power to escape from them or allow them access to our privacy.
- Do not pay attention, change the subject, and have a positive attitude.
- dismantle their theories, with kindness, making them see the absurdity of their ideas or complaints
- You are a toxic person? be self-critical and Test your knowledge
Now that you know or can identify this type of people you deal with that / a partner @ conflicting, from which you flee, because they decrease your energy and leave you as if he had sucked the blood. Now you know, is an emotional vampire.
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